Please, Don’t Judge…



12 Things You Should Never Say To A Chronic Migraineur

12 Things You Should Never Say To A Chronic Migraineur

*I lose chunks of my life to migraines, so I agree with the serious nature of suffering from them and what to say to those who get them. They’re not easy to cope with.*

Defensiveness Is

Defensiveness Is…

Defensiveness is usually someone silently screaming that they need you to value and respect them in disguise. When you look for deeper meanings behind someone’s pain you can then begin to heal not only yourself, but others. ” Shannon L. Alder

I Thought I’d…..

I Thought I’d…

“I thought I’d lie on the floor and writhe in pain for a while,” he grunted, “It relaxes me.”
“It does? Oh – you’re being sarcastic. That’s a good sign probably.”
―Cassandra Clare

*This would be much funnier if I hadn’t spent most of the day in bed yesterday feeling exactly like this. Better still, if it had gone away. I swear there’s a knife or two in my back, so if you’d kindly remove either of them, that would be fantastic.*

Compassion Hurt…

Compassion Hurts…

“Compassion hurts. When you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything. And you cannot turn away. Your destiny is bound with the destinies of others. You must either learn to carry the Universe or be crushed by it. You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors.” ―Andrew Boyd