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Posted onJune 27, 2014
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“It takes so little to be a good friend, so please, don’t be an asshole about it. Be present, be loyal, be honest, and show that you genuinely care. It’s beyond fucking simple.” -Lisa M. Marino
I wanted to let everyone know, in advance, that I am adding some additional talent to this blog. Under the blogger handle “fawkestears” will be one of my best friends, Stefanie. She & I have worked together on various projects, on and off, for over 20 years.
Whenever I am unable, for whatever reason, to blog, she will try to be here in my stead. I am also hoping she will add her photographic spin to things, as she is a talented freelance photographer.
Please, when she posts, treat her as warmly as you have all treated me.
Thanking you all,
I don’t usually share two quotes in one day, but one of my best friends just said this to me this morning and it REALLY made me feel good. This is one of the reasons she & I have been best friends for over 20 years, I’m blessed to have her in my life.
“Truly good friends do whatever humanly possible so as NOT to fail their friends. They care, they give of their time, they listen, they’re loyal, they don’t blow smoke up your ass, they tell you when you’re wrong, they are unfailingly supportive, but most of all, they know how to be a friend. You are, one million percent, that friend and I love you for it.” © Stefanie Adams-McNamara
National Best Friend Day
We don’t always get to choose our friends, sometimes they simply come into our lives and stay. Those that walk out, never to return, are often replaced by far better people who will be loyal and “get you”, without your ever having to do anything more than be yourself.
I am grateful (and extremely blessed) to have the amazing women in my life that get the honored title of “Best Friend”. One in particular though is about a quarter of a step away from me beating her soundly with a hockey stick (and I’m only partially kidding.). I am also grateful to the handful of people I get to call “Friend”.
I’ve always thought highly of friendship as one of the best relationships you can have in life. That’s probably just my own personal view on things, I know plenty of awful friends, and I’ve had many that are no longer in my life. That is why the good ones deserve so much praise.
Hugs & Love to my girls, my sisters-in-crime, the people I laugh with most, the ones who truly understand me. As for the rest? I really don’t give a damn, they’re not MY friends!
You are full of it.
You are fake, flitting from one person to the next.
You are full of lies, full of excuses, full of issues.
One day you profess a certain level of love, loyalty, and friendship…
And then, like a Gemini plugging along, you move on to the next person.
You make me utterly sick.
I’m sorry I ever wasted my time being your friend.
You’re giving back nothing, but excuses, not realizing I know the truth.
Take all your bullshit and sell it to someone who cares.
You have lost the privilege of having me in your life.
I’m walking away, do not follow me.
Copyright © 2014 by Lisa Marino & Blackbird Serenity LLC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED
How To Deal With A Friend’s Depression
There Is No…
“There is no happiness like that of being loved by your fellow creatures, and feeling that your presence is an addition to their comfort.”
Talking with a friend and laughing over the goofiest shit for hours. She knows who she is. 🙂
Receiving the autographed Scott Stapp CD “Proof Of Life” that I won when someone else backed out of Walmart’s Soundcheck Giveaway. The CD is signed in gold and an enormous poster promoting the CD and the Soundcheck interview came separately. The poster is beautiful. All in all, a pretty cool win, and my second score during the holidays via a Facebook giveaway. I encourage people to enter these things, you never know what you might win. My first win shocked me and totally made my month. This win was a really lovely surprise. 🙂
Receiving toys for Baby V, handmade by Megan @ https://www.etsy.com/shop/PeonyCrochet
I took photos of all of the toys and will be showcasing them with Verity as soon as I can catch her. After I took the photos, with her permission, of course, she resumed sniffing and inspecting the toys. First she simply tried stealing the package right out of my hands. Anything with bells, man, she’ll attack you for playtime. Then she systematically snatched one right off my bed, and ran off with it in her mouth. She’s a toy beast, and she’s obsessed with these. If you have pets, check out Megan’s store on Etsy and see if she can make you something that your pet will love. V is picky, but she LOVES these. I tried taking it from her to throw it (I had to lock the others away, she tried getting into the envelope. Megan, I swear she smells Chester!) and she nearly tore my hand off. Possessive little shit. THANK YOU SO MUCH MEGAN! You know how much this means to me. 🙂
Crappy part of my day? Not (legally) being able to shoot the plumber that showed up and tried to gauge me for a job that is 3/4’s cheaper than what he quoted me. The asshole then has the balls to charge me a service fee for coming out, when all he did was look in my back yard. He calls that a diagnosis of the problem?! I beg to fucking differ! I got my service fee back right away, called someone else, and hopefully this fucking mess will be handled tomorrow by one company or another. Whoever gets here first and honors the price I was originally quoted is the one that gets my business, otherwise murders WILL be committed. I am so sick of this shit. How hard is it to be where you say you will be in a timely fashion? I understand some jobs are much bigger than mine, therefore mine is lower priority since it’s not as much money, but don’t blow me off for DAYS and expect me to be all sweetness and light. Not going to happen.
Here’s hoping, and praying, that tomorrow leads to better days, better situations, and more reasons to smile.
I Fucking Dare You!!
“Attack the people I love, and eventually I will come after you. Attack me, and I will laugh in your face. Continue to fuck with the people I love and I will give you an option: Public humiliation or absolute destruction via the weapon of my choosing. Be careful what you say and do when you think I’m some passive, sweet, gullible, little chicken shit. I’m NOTHING you think I am. I have claws, fangs, and venom you will not recover from. Try me motherfucker. I FUCKING DARE YOU!!“ -Rachel Locke